an invitation · november 2026
a forest birthday
come celebrate my birthday with me at the garden. come for a day, or a week, or however long you want.
- when
- thu 19 – mon 23 nov
- the day
- sun 22 nov
- where
- the garden, a forest near porto, portugal
the idea
rainy autumn forest vibes, a hot tub and a sauna, dancing and music, and maybe even a cook. you fly in from wherever you are and stay for all of it or part of it.
i want loved ones around me who actually show up. that's you.
hot tubsteaming, in the rain
saunacedar, on the lake
dancingthe big wooden hall, music
nightsthe hall lit up under the moon
the weekend
mostly this is time to talk, hang out and catch up. the rest is optional.

- arrive
cozy up in the cork room, soup, catching up, first sauna
- hang out
long talks, forest walks, hot tub, the full gym if you want it
- party
dinner, then dancing into my birthday at midnight
- my birthday
slow morning, long lunch, more talking, more sauna
- goodbyes
or stay on longer, on your own tab
money
you get yourself here. the stay will be free or low cost, and i'm still working that out with the garden. i don't want this to be a drain on anyone, so if it's not free it'll go by what you can afford.
if you want to stay past monday, you're welcome to, you just cover those nights yourself.
getting there
fly into porto (OPO). a taxi from the airport to the garden is about €45, so it's worth sharing one. once you say yes, i'll send the exact address and match people up by arrival time.
bring
the garden is normally closed in winter, and the big halls are cold and hard to heat. so we'll hang out in the cork room, the small warm one usually used for yoga and meditation. the rest of the warmth is in the sauna and the hot tub. dress for the cold in between.
- wool socks and slippers
- a big sweater, layers
- rain jacket, boots
- a robe (sauna and hot tub are nude, swimwear if you'd rather)
- a hot water bottle
- music, an instrument
are you coming?
tell me roughly when, so i can plan beds and food. nothing is binding yet.
here's your reply. send it to me.