an invitation · november 2026

a forest birthday

come celebrate my birthday with me at the garden. come for a day, or a week, or however long you want.

when
thu 19 – mon 23 nov
the day
sun 22 nov
where
the garden, a forest near porto, portugal
the lake at the garden from above, surrounded by forest
the lake from above. 9 hectares of forest, two springs

the idea

rainy autumn forest vibes, a hot tub and a sauna, dancing and music, and maybe even a cook. you fly in from wherever you are and stay for all of it or part of it.

i want loved ones around me who actually show up. that's you.

the weekend

mostly this is time to talk, hang out and catch up. the rest is optional.

candles burning on a wooden table at night
  1. arrive

    cozy up in the cork room, soup, catching up, first sauna

  2. hang out

    long talks, forest walks, hot tub, the full gym if you want it

  3. party

    dinner, then dancing into my birthday at midnight

  4. my birthday

    slow morning, long lunch, more talking, more sauna

  5. goodbyes

    or stay on longer, on your own tab

money

you get yourself here. the stay will be free or low cost, and i'm still working that out with the garden. i don't want this to be a drain on anyone, so if it's not free it'll go by what you can afford.

if you want to stay past monday, you're welcome to, you just cover those nights yourself.

getting there

fly into porto (OPO). a taxi from the airport to the garden is about €45, so it's worth sharing one. once you say yes, i'll send the exact address and match people up by arrival time.

bring

the garden is normally closed in winter, and the big halls are cold and hard to heat. so we'll hang out in the cork room, the small warm one usually used for yoga and meditation. the rest of the warmth is in the sauna and the hot tub. dress for the cold in between.

are you coming?

tell me roughly when, so i can plan beds and food. nothing is binding yet.

which days (tap all that apply)

add it to your google calendar